Saturday, 2 July 2022

The Beginning of something new!

 Time, they say, is an illusion.

A calendar is but a physical manifestation of the psychological defences that humans employ to pretend to know what is going to happen next. Monday surely comes after Sunday.

Memory is but a bittersweet record of the Time that has passed, or rather, that we have passed through.

Memories are assigned dates, and locations and are hued with the colours of our ever-volatile emotions, an angry red, a happy yellow, a romantic pink. The paranoid urge to contain everything within the human range of senses is an innate limitation of our kind, as much as the unavoidable need to confine the indiscernible and unknown into simple words.

The memories I have of my life are beautiful. At least, I make them out to be. I refuse to believe that certain things may not have really happened and I only remember them that way because of my befuddlement with memories of dreams and reality. I refuse to believe that certain words weren’t spoken to mean what I remember them to have meant. I find solace in my memories, a certain nostalgia, for what was.

When I was very little and needed to hide myself during play, I used to shut my eyes and believe that if I couldn’t see my seeker, so couldn’t she! All of thirty one years now, I still do it. I blind myself to the chaos of my lonely, unpredictable present and go back decades. I frame my memory with measly words — beautiful, kind, wonderful, annoying— impotent to grasp the immensity of the occurrence, of the crisscrossing of my path with another’s.

My day started with his smile. My play ended with him beating me at a game. He showed me how two stones rubbed against each other could make them get attracted to each other. I was drawn to him, although he never held my fingers, simple physics becoming an unlikely trigger for my first love.

I dig deep into pockets of experiences, tweaked with subconscious manipulations, a license, I think one ought to give oneself. Why else, would you relive something that exists no more, that might as well have been a dream, unless you needed a beautiful sorted-out phantasm to escape to, from where you are right now?

Hope is but an unapparent prediction of Time yet to arrive, or rather, that we have yet to reach.

One’s present is stamped with seals of life’s panorama, having loved, hated, suffered, succeeded, failed, tried and struggled. After a certain time, it becomes second nature to predict one’s fate. It becomes a habit to hope.

Hope, not being limited to momentous events, provides a wider canvas to portray dreams, dreams of the future and fantasies born of dissatisfaction with mortal affairs.

Hope hurts. The lucidity of a hopeful dream, however, is self-replenishing.

Hope hurts, yes, but the courage to hope, again and again, is life-blood to the beautiful landscape of universal Life that forever remains in want of completion, by the oft-spoken about collective human consciousness.

I shall hope for another day and another smile, lit for me.

In the grand plan of things, our present, past and future are ridiculously minuscule, almost non-existent, and so close to each other on the Infinite Timeline, they might as well have been a singular entity.

When I reminisce about the summer of 2000, my present might as well be the summer of 2000.

As I consciously type the words, my present is 16:05 pm on the 2nd of July.

For all I know, the future I am hoping for might have happened already.

The Past is the Present is the Future.

You get what I am saying?

Time, they say, is an illusion.

Friday, 1 July 2022

Closures!

It is our Birthday Month! and we are all butterflies to this event!

And boy, it has been ages since I wrote my heart out. I have been keeping most things in my heart for reasons that I have every few ears who can listen and comprehend what I say.

It is an irony! when you say something good, people say you are being dramatic or fake and when you speak the truth, they cannot handle the facts. So, I sometimes wonder whether or not to say something to someone.

I began my podcast show with a simple thought since I am an excellent orator, why don't I use these skills to entertain people, inspire people and make them smile at the end of the show.

I began my Podcast show with 

love and excitement. I spoke about so many things and then a few people said that I was being fake on the show. That I had an ego on my chest and when I die I will take it along with me. LOL.

See, the thing is that when you want to be good to someone, their ass cannot take it. They cannot stand the fact that you are actually a genuine person and they are the ones who behave unnaturally.

Nevertheless, these people die in their own shit one day and let them live a life in an illusion that "Unka Mann Saaf hai". And then there are closures. Closure issues.

There are people who you like and then they cannot like you back. So unfortunate! I always have difficulty getting closure in such situations. I have tonnes to tell them but they are not in a position to listen to anything.

In such situations, there is frustration and then there is regret as well.

But, little is something which you can do about someone you like not reciprocating your affection.

A few abstract emotions stay in the heart forever and sometimes when you dedicate a post to someone, you really wish you could mention their name.

so, to egos, regrets and looking up to the clear blue sky, cheers to life!






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